I'm sure a lot of people will agree with me that life needs to be fun. As part of that fun having new experiences, trying new things are an integral part of that fun. Some of the experiences are good, others perhaps less.
I think often people have the idea that the people into this kind of thing are wild savages. The guy I met was very "professional" and understanding. Respect was his number 1 priority and was actually a really nice guy.
He considers his fascination with BDSM almost as an artform. I arrived at his top floor apartment and he answered the door wearing army combat trousers and boots and a leather harness. He was shorter than me, thin and bald with a hairy chest and stomach. I imagine when he was a lot younger he must have been quite good looking.
Nothing was more important to him than mutual respect, safety and hygiene.
I wasn't too sure how to proceed so found myself chatting and chain-smoking and drinking coffee. He wasn't really the type of guy I'm really into but on the other hand I wanted the experience. I decided to wait for him to make the first move. That came sooner than I expected - he put down his coffee and stood in front of me and said "I don't know about you but I'm gonna get undressed!". He then stood in front of me and begin to remove his boots and take down his combats. He was no standing in front of me in just his leather harness and a pair of briefs. He lowered his head and quietly said "I'm all yours, sir!". He had already told me that he was going to be a bottom, but that I shouldn't expect an easy ride and he was not going to submit easily and would put up a fight.
One thing he had told me he particularly enjoys is forced smoking, which basically is forcibly inhaling the smoke from another guy's cigarette. Personally, I was like - what the fuck - but it was something he wanted - so I lit another cigarette and held him tight while I exhaled the cigarette down his throat. I totally wasn't ready to start choking and suffocating him, so took a wide berth from all that side of things.
I had him suck me some more until I could feel I was about to cum before shooting my load over his face. As I was cumming I had allowed him too to jerk until he came over himself at the same time. It was all over.
It had definitely been an experience albeit a rather tiring experience. We remained in contact for quite a while after that and even popped round to him a couple of times for a coffee and chat. We were never physical after that. I had decided that although fun, BDSM wasn't for me.
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