Tuesday, 9 February 2010

Don't Misunderstand

I'm often under the misunderstanding that my posts need to be long, rambling literary works.  I guess like most people there are days which are just very quiet and I have very little to say.  That doesn't mean that I'm neglecting the blog or giving up, but I have decided it's better some days not to write anything than to write shite.

The last couple of days have been just like that.  I've not been in a very good mood and I'm pretty down.  Although I put on a great face.  Following the big argument with my wife last week - we're still not speaking and basically because of lots of other things around - I can't even be bothered to make up with her.  My constant thinking about my situation (don't get me wrong - I'm not looking for sympathy) has left me drained and without any kind of desire to do anything else. 

A good friend told me that not resolving arguments leaves you full of resentment - and he's absolutely right.  But that's what has happened and how much resentment can one person take before it boils over to something more?  I don't know.  But I definitely feel I'm getting to the point where I stop caring.  It's a horrible situation to be in.

I guess things will resolve themselves one way or the other.  But that's why my blog posts have been a bit patchy recently.  But I'm still enjoying having this outlet to vent and rant.  I hope I sometimes make you smile too.

Thanks all for listening and even commenting.


  1. I am glad you are sharing. I may not be able to always relate or give helpful advice, but I care!! It seems that we share a similar colleague conundrum. Oh and yes some of your posts are most definitely entertaining!! Hope your day end on a high note.. Johan

  2. Thanks, good to know that people are reading my posts.

  3. Mate, you are only human. I am sure within time things will get better..there must be something in the air!my missus is giving me the shits at the moment but unlike your situation we have it out and then it is over so keep ya chin up is all I can really say, and I too love coming to your blog and reading your posts so a big hug from me mate.