I haven't abandoned the blog. Things have just been very quiet at the moment and although I'm constantly thinking about topics to write about, I haven't been able to think of anything interesting that may interest readers. I realise that isn't the smartest thing to do as it may cause people to drift away from my blog and not return. I keep reading the blogs of others and love some of the ways that people manage to attract readers to their blogs by means of pictures, interviews, polls etc...
I love the idea that some of my posts have provoked feedback and comments from people who read my blog and these comments (even those that I don't always agree with) definitely give me a buzz knowing that a stranger somewhere in the world is reading about my life and taking their time and energy to actually comment on it.
As I said, things are very quiet at the moment. Still doing the running around and staying late at work which just leaves me pretty tired without much energy to do much although I'm horny all the time. Flirty office guy said he's staying late tonight as well, but not sure if I'm coming back. Last time we worked late together, I gave him a lift home, alas nothing happened. Not even any flirting - he spent most of the time in the car on the phone to his wife - dammit!!!
I have been having some very strange thoughts recently. Although I love sucking cock and generally being a top when I'm with a guy, I have always enjoyed the thought of being a really slutty bottom. The problem with me, I'm not sure it can be entirely classed as a "problem" is my inability to relax enough. I have been fucked before (a long, long, long time ago) and when it's done gently and properly is incredibly enjoyable. I don't know whether it's a matter of me needing to be "in control" of the situation when I'm with a guy so therefore like being on top but just never seem to relax enough to take a cock comfortably. I'm interested to know whether other guys find the same thing or is it just me?. I read lots of forums, stories and blogs etc... of guys just being able to bend over and take it without so much as batting an eyelid - but I just don't seem to be able to do it!
I'm sure the issue is not the position, whether it's riding a cock, sitting on one, bending over or lying down - it's the actual insertion! Maybe I'm just nuts!
Your comments thoughts etc... would be appreciated!
Just a quickie post today have a good one!
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I used to find it very painful when a guy inserted his cock. Sometimes it hurt so much I would need to have him withdraw and try again after a few seconds, by which time my arse would have relaxed a bit more and I could usually manage it. But once I had got over the initial pain, I really enjoyed the feel of a cock inside me; so I persevered. It gradually became less painful initially, and now I can take even a big cock fairly easily without discomfort. I suppose it's just a matter of practice.
ReplyDeletemy xlover used to take it instantly.But me I have to have foreplay before hand,then I can enjoy the pleasure of being fucked.
ReplyDeleteI think Paul is right,it is practice and learning to relax so there's no discomfort..once we are over the pain barrier it is all wonderful.
Its a matter of the guy... I usually top mainly because I get hard first and stay hard the longest but I do enjoy my pert little ass being paneled like crazy however I have learnt that its really the guy. My last boyfriend had a tiny dick but he is the only guy that ever hurt me. I'll admit I have a tight little ass but he just shoved it in every time scared he would loose his hard on and as a result hurt me every single time.
ReplyDeleteMy new bf has a nice sized cock, thick, but he is so gentle and takes his time that being fucked by him is the best!
I think its silly if a man never takes part in this kind of sex, all men have a prostate and all of them can be milked and should be milked. Gay or straight it doesn't matter, having a prostate is part of being a man... now sucking dick...thats gay! and i love to suck cock, hehehehe!
A couple things have always served me well - good lube and lots of it and just taking things slow. For as many years as I've been doing it, unless the guy is on the smallish side, I'm always a little tense at first and for me, that's where easing into it is essential. That being said, once you're in, you're in and size is no longer an issue - I can't get enough. I'm one of the lucky ones I guess, a good fucking will almost always make me come. The shape of his cock and the position you choose can also make a difference. I prefer to be on my back and the guy to have a cock that curves slightly up - just seems to work best for me. My advice - practice, practice, practice.
ReplyDeleteI think it's a control thing. I am also a top but can enjoy a cock occassionally, usually if I am more relaxed.. some poppers help and I really have to be in the mood, but don't want it all the time.. it takes away my sense of being in charge.
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